Getting involved with a girl who wants to be in a long relationship that goes as far as you two want it to go is pretty easy to do.
You go on a few dates, get to know each other, finally have sex, and then move in together…Etc. It’s pretty much how your typical relationship goes. There’s not much more to add. It’s a no-frills type of deal, and the majority of relationships on earth turn out this way.
But what happens if you’re a guy looking for an open relationship with no commitments yet? What happens if you want to have that go-to lady to have fun with but still want to have the option of going out with your boys and slaying some random poon?
This is usually out of the question for most people, but there are certainly ladies out there who would want the same thing: a guy who they can go on vacations with, have sex with, but still have the option of talking to other people and hanging out with them.
If you’re ready for this untamed world of open relationships, here’s how to score a great one:
Your First Line of Attack is Online Dating
Going out on the prowl and looking for a girl who is looking for an open relationship is really difficult. Sure, you can find a one-night stand with no problems, but finding a girl to commit to like that is not easy.
But just like how you can Google anything you want and find it, you can do the same thing with online dating. There are sites for everything, and if you want to know about it, you can.
There are tons of dating sites out there, and even the ones that claim to want people to get into typical relationships have options where you can find girls according to their relationship preference.
Plentyoffish, for instance, has intense search capabilities, and you can find girls to enter into an open relationship.
Your Second Line of Attack is Laying the Groundwork
Let the girls come to you! If you lay the groundwork on a number of dating websites, there’s a solid chance that they’ll contact you and try to get to know you better.
Unless you’re a goblin, you should get at least a few girls who want to hang out with you.
Plus, if you don’t feel like doing that, you can just watch the girls spill in from your inbox. It’s perfect!
Finally, Get to Work
Once you’ve landed a girl that wants what you want, make sure to treat her well and like a potential girlfriend. Since she’s not really your hardcore girlfriend type, you want to make sure she sticks around.
Don’t go over the top, though. Just enough to make her feel wanted. And then you’re all set!